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Title : HE LEFT ME... TRYING TO MANAGE WITHOUT HIM!
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It is challenging. But do what you can and forgive yourself cause you can't do everything. Rest when the kids rest, meal prep and plan or order out if you need the break. Also remember to pray to God and ask Him for strength, patience with yourself and the kids. Just know that you are doing the best you can and that is awesome and enough! Your kids love you!
I had 5 kids.....and 2 of my boys were "needy" and I couldn't go to the bathroom without them. Guess what? They are the most independent kids out of my 5 now that they are older. I just decided to bond with them because when they start walking they won't be on your hip so much, so I wore a Snuggly and even cut grass with a baby on my back. 😂🤣😂 Do whatever works and keeps you sane, because it will come to an end one day and you'll miss these days even as hard as they are. You got this, mama! 🥰🥰🥰
Give your problems to JESUS. When your baby is sleeping, try to make breastfeed milk bags and put them in the freezer and label them. Do your meal preps at night. Get a little basket fill it with diapers, wipes, burp cloths and diaper cream and place it in the living room. Do you have a baby swing ?
You have this baby. You are stronger than you think. None of us mom's know anything when we get our kids. It's all a work in progress. Do you have family that is close to try to help you out? You need to get your time too. Just don't be with the kids all the time. Tell Ahmed you need to go hang it. It will be extremely hard but get at least an hour of time for you. Y'all stay blessed 🙏. The family is absolutely beautiful 💯😊💙
Mama love ❤️ your doing the thang and daddy your a genuine man . The kids are so blessed and adorable 🥰. Mama love I nursed and the 2nd and 3rd nearly took all of me it seemed all I did was nurse ! But it did get better and at 7 mos I could work and pump twice a day .. nurse my baby at home on lunch break .. it gave me time to invest into my career , and a home life balance .. it was a lot of work, but I felt I got what I needed in return to be my best for my family. I see you doing the nursing , AND you are pumping already and providing bottles !! It’s a LOT and your husband working , a little one in addition... You guys have got amazing strength and bond ! Y’all are wonderful and wish you were my friends here next door .. I’d love to give chases and play ball with that adorable little guy 🥰
I feel your stress. I'm a mother of 4 new baby and little ones also single mother. You will get the hang of it. Just focus on what your doing and dont worry about who will help you, God doesnt give you what you cant handle. Trust in God he will see you through your days one day at a time. Good luck
Now remember babies do t come with a manual but they’ll let you know what’s what. Keep a balance & don’t overdo anything remember yourself & ate time to relax away from the babies sleep when they sleep that’s discipline for your active 3/4yr old & future-things change daily. Watch what you eat cut out hormone filled antibiotic filled meats etc etc. You have a beautiful family ALWAYS remind yourself of that. I warn you now them muffins will cause you great regret & pain later on. Don’t eat so much.
Thank you for sharing your story. May God give you the strength you need and continue to bless you and your family abundantly in all you do. I have found the following sites really useful on my life journey and I do hope they will be a blessing for you too:
Bible Answers and Promises
Take care and God blessings always 😊
Amad your helping alot. I'm a single mom and when my second child(son) was born. I was breast feeding and not eating cause I didn't have time to cook enough food for me a my first child (daughter 2years old) I saved all the food for her so she wouldn't be hungry. I bought her plenty of fruit she love them. I had a couple of unresponsive day due to lack of food. I didn't know that boy breast fed 4x more than girls. SMH. Anyway make sure she has 4 to 6 meals (a bowl of fruit could be a meal) a day or when you can. Your doing such a great job just making sure you helping. My babies are 5 and 8 now and I still forget to feed myself I'm too busy feeding them and my son always make sure I eat. #singlemomchronicles I would never change anything my kids are the greatest loves of my life after God. They are all I have in this world. You are both doing amazing. Time is gonna fly so enjoy what you can and make it a big deal.😁 God bless!
Awe baby girl dont cry i was about to cry with you. I remember many, many years ago when my son was a new born 93 and they had just passed the fmla law my husband was home for 30 days. Girl when he went back i cried like a crazy fool, The baby had been airlifted to another hospital with poop in his lungs from being in too long, he had made his first bowel movement and cause him pneumonia. His lungs couldn't work good. He is 27 now and married with a 2 year old and one on the way next month. He was number 2 and something. We have 3 and she is the last one home 19 . Ready for her to finish college so i can done with the mommy duties. Naseem is s cute and helpful handsome big brother . The baby is so cute. Beautiful family.
Noooo....Put yourself _ family on an schedule.....gotta have a routine Mommy...you have yrs to go, an all that crying aint it chi...think about that the next time ok....yo needs to follow Proud Mommy of 8, and she's pregnant with #9....@ the age of 26.....you just may learn something.
Everyone keeps saying, "stop crying"! Girl no...cry! Let all of that out. Holding it in isn't healthy AND you couldn't not cry even if you wanted to. Your hormones are all over the place...as they should be. Take one day at a time. Figure one thing out each day that may help the next day a little easier. You and Ahmad are a team and team work does what? Yes ma'am...teamwork makes the dream work! Blessings from Texas!
He might not be getting enough milk. I'm old school I gave my baby baby cereal at two weeks the best is me. 🙆🏽♀️ It was 37 years ago but I did it to all of my children. It helps them to sleep it won't hurt them. You put it in their milk just a teaspoon. Rice not oatmeal cereal. I was a 15-year-old mother 17-year-old mother and 23 year old mother. And also did it with my grandchildren. I think he's just hungry or he might be calling. But it'll be okay Mommy 🙆🏽♀️
You will be all right it is going to take time. Do all you can win the baby is rest. Take one day at a time it is going to be all right. It is good to see you are doing all right and you and. Your Husband there to help it is good. To see the father do all he can do to help her out with the baby.
I’m less than two minutes into this video. I remember those days of two under two. Going from one child to two, to me, is harder than having more than two. My husband worked nights until one year ago and lived elsewhere too for work. Do your best to get a support system! Even if it’s someone to cry to most nights! Also a good multi vitamin works wonders since you’re nursing.